Visual You, I feel, is one of the most accessible Japanese punk/goth and Lolita stores I’ve found in the states. The prices are affordable, their stock changes on a consistent basis, and they throw in little free gifts with the order.
And yes, I am going all fangirl on this store. However, I’ve ordered from them in the past and was amazingly pleased. Not to mention, their themed sets are like awesome little Visual Kei starter kits.
